Killers of excellent marriage
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1. Failed expectations: Many expectation we have before going into marriage.
2. Lack of contentment: Comparing your spouse with other.
3. Carryover Battles: Terrible Experiences of ones parents in marriage being set as the yardstick for building ones marriage.
4. Failed desires: Hopes in each other that as time went on did not materialize
5. Failure to leave and cleave: External Influence from in-laws, close friends puts the marriage at risk. It is the two of you against the world. Third party participation spells doom for any great marriage
6. Test of love failure: Time, distance, money, success e.t.c. Your failure to handle these things which will naturally come your martial way will go along way to determine how successful your marriage will be
7. Love language deficiency: Touch, words, gifts e.t.c
8. Wrong handling of misunderstanding
9. Revenge for hurt deeds n pains caused by spouse
10. Character change demands without giving time to change
11. Sexual War: Misunderstanding on the part of both parties
12. Financial Battle
13. Wrong handling of the phases in marriage (0-5),(5-20),(21-30),(31-above).
14. Turning Eden into wilderness: God placed Adam n Eve in a garden n not a house or a palace which he could, but a garden why? Whet do we so in a garden:
a. Play
b. Rest
c. Enjoy pleasure
d. Refresh. These are the things marriage must give cos marriage is a garden of love.
15. Problem of Submission (Wife) & Servanthood (husband).
OLUWATUYI OLANIYI
The Resuscitation Centre
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